Conscious Flow

Secrets and entanglements in the family system

“I will never be like my mother”, the young woman vows.   With great awareness, this young woman creates a different life and new circumstances with a deliberate focus to create a different life. Before the young woman knows it,… Continue Reading…

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Learning from the Systemic Field – Mothers and Daughters

Why is the relationship with mother and daughter either complete loving and whole or estranged and dysfunctional? What makes a mother-daughter bond so unique? What is so hurtful that it becomes a non-functional and often abusive relationship? As a daughter,… Continue Reading…

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A workshop experience – Physical manifestation from unresolved trauma

Yesterday I attended a Systemic Constellation Workshop held by one of my fully trained facilitators. It was heartwarming to witness the professionalism of his work—most of yesterday’s constellations that were set up related to physical ailments.   It reminded me… Continue Reading…

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Learning From The Systemic Field – Who Is My Father?

Who is my father? It has been the theme highlighted in the systemic workshops I’ve experienced in the past few weeks.  I’m trying to understand the question.  The age of the child asking the question ranges from teenager to mature… Continue Reading…