What does my sense of belonging do for me now? It provides me with a feeling of completeness. The search is over. Due to the circumstances, both parents found themselves in a predicament as they were at my conception.  As… Continue Reading…

Trauma happens to everybody individually and collectively. We all carry a backlog of pain that has never been heard or received because we miss a culture, a narrative that helps us share and hold space for each other’s deepest wounds.… Continue Reading…

We get together monthly and discuss our learnings from the systemic field. We talk about everyday thoughts that surround us in the here and the now. It is a safe space for sharing and caring. As we share, we become… Continue Reading…

In my coaching, I have the privilege of bearing witness to people’s innermost wounds. The wounds that control us. We are not consciously aware of the wounds that are entangled within the systems within which we live.  One of the… Continue Reading…

In Family Constellations, we often uncover the ‘unknown’, which may be a secret. Why do people hold onto secrets? Secrets create complicated entanglements. What is the purpose of keeping a secret? What are the consequences for those that hold the… Continue Reading…

This weekend, during one of our practice training sessions, we set up what appeared an innocent, easy systemic coaching exercise.  The issue with time.  One of the trainees even mentioned that this was simply an issue of forming proper timing… Continue Reading…

It’s early September 2021.  Our systemic membership team is meeting to explore answers to questions that keep rotating in our conversations. The topic of the current pandemic slips into every conversation.  How have our lives changed since our first lockdown? … Continue Reading…