I am the perfect parent. I want to be the perfect parent. Parents make choices around the idea that they have all the solutions to being the perfect parent. The child, however, with its expectations and wants of more and… Continue Reading…

I feel honoured to witness the courage of people who have experienced trauma and have opened up to their most intimate and vulnerable wounds.  Yes, we survive trauma by blocking out the experience/s in one form or another. Grace allows… Continue Reading…

This writing summarises learning from the Inner Child Healing Constellations online workshop.  There was a sense of apprehension when we started the workshop on Friday afternoon. What can we expect? What will surface? What are the Inner Child’s emotions already… Continue Reading…

The Field of Wholeness acknowledges and proposes all possibilities that exist and will be.  In one of our training circles, we set up a Constellation as a continuation of a previous constellation. We looked at two elements for the Client… Continue Reading…

What to expect in the inner child workshop Inner Child Workshop What can you expect in the Inner Child Healing Constellations Workshop? When I recently introduced this idea to a client, the first reaction was: “Is there a group of… Continue Reading…

Have you ever wondered why you make money or lose money as your pattern? Patterns are entanglements that emerge from the family system. “Who made and lost money in the ancestral system”? The phenomena may be a pattern of more… Continue Reading…

I’m left in awe of the Constellations we witnessed in a fantastic workshop. Standing in the family system. We opened the workshop with some introductions. Some Q&A followed about the origins of Family Constellations and the inclusion within the Field… Continue Reading…

We get together monthly and discuss our learnings from the systemic field. We talk about everyday thoughts that surround us in the here and the now. It is a safe space for sharing and caring. As we share, we become… Continue Reading…

As a coach, trainer, and facilitator, how can I approach a problematic situation with Compassion? It is easier to label and deal with a problem with the label as the starting point. It is easy to judge. It is easy… Continue Reading…

I am your daughter, but I wish you were not my father. In Family Constellations, we acknowledge that we have the family system of our father and the family system of our mother running in our veins.  We have also… Continue Reading…