2021-11-22
“I will never be like my mother”, the young woman vows. With great awareness, this young woman creates a different life and new circumstances with a deliberate focus to create a different life. Before the young woman knows it,… Continue Reading…
Why is the relationship with mother and daughter either complete loving and whole or estranged and dysfunctional? What makes a mother-daughter bond so unique? What is so hurtful that it becomes a non-functional and often abusive relationship? As a daughter,… Continue Reading…
2021-11-08
Yesterday I attended a Systemic Constellation Workshop held by one of my fully trained facilitators. It was heartwarming to witness the professionalism of his work—most of yesterday’s constellations that were set up related to physical ailments. It reminded me… Continue Reading…
2021-11-06
Who is my father? It has been the theme highlighted in the systemic workshops I’ve experienced in the past few weeks. I’m trying to understand the question. The age of the child asking the question ranges from teenager to mature… Continue Reading…
2021-10-18
What does my sense of belonging do for me now? It provides me with a feeling of completeness. The search is over. Due to the circumstances, both parents found themselves in a predicament as they were at my conception. As… Continue Reading…
2021-10-05
Trauma happens to everybody individually and collectively. We all carry a backlog of pain that has never been heard or received because we miss a culture, a narrative that helps us share and hold space for each other’s deepest wounds.… Continue Reading…
2021-10-04
We get together monthly and discuss our learnings from the systemic field. We talk about everyday thoughts that surround us in the here and the now. It is a safe space for sharing and caring. As we share, we become… Continue Reading…
In my coaching, I have the privilege of bearing witness to people’s innermost wounds. The wounds that control us. We are not consciously aware of the wounds that are entangled within the systems within which we live. One of the… Continue Reading…
In Family Constellations, we often uncover the ‘unknown’, which may be a secret. Why do people hold onto secrets? Secrets create complicated entanglements. What is the purpose of keeping a secret? What are the consequences for those that hold the… Continue Reading…
This weekend, during one of our practice training sessions, we set up what appeared an innocent, easy systemic coaching exercise. The issue with time. One of the trainees even mentioned that this was simply an issue of forming proper timing… Continue Reading…
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